Defensive Talk – Win Without the Fight
Defensive Talk
How to talk when being attacked. Well many people will tell you – “Hey, you can try to talk your way out of it, but you better not even open your mouth!” But that is all and you can just guess for your self what to say. The defensive talk should be part of your plan and there are different ways of defensive talking that should help you save your butt.
The first think you should know, is that your voice is a weapon and according to that you should use it. Forget those mean sayings like “I’m gonna kick your ass!”, “Lets get ready to rock!” or “There can be only one Highlander!” and anything like that. It’s nice and fancy, but it is not tactics.
Defensive talk is all about tactics and strategy.
1. Defensive talk scenario – When you have identified the threat and whether you have already stopped the guy or still trying to create some distance between you two, your defensive talk must be strong in voice and you should be very convincing. It’s like giving orders to your dog. he must hear from your voice that you are his master. The same goes for your assailant. He must feel from your voice that it is you who moves the levers.
Imagine you are selling something that nobody wants to someone and you really need him to buy. You must convince him that he really needs it and he can no longer live without your product. Now when being attacked, you sell your life or money and you must persuade that bastard he has no other option than letting you go!
You can use sentences like “My friends will be here in a minute!”, “I just walked around two cops, I think I may call them!” or “Hey, I want no trouble, you better leave!” – remember that you must have really dominant voice tone.
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2. Defensive talk scenario – If you want to execute your offense from the close quarters – I mean really close (usual for rapes) preparing the assailant for close strikes like the throat blow or chin jab you should play timid with your hands raised so it would look like you really don’t want to fight. Saying “I’m going to tear your head off m*f*cker!” is not going to make you look timid at all. I would recommend saying things like “You don’t want to do this!” or “Please, I don’t want any trouble!”
3. Defensive talk scenario - The guy is approaching you, waving his hands walking like a jerk, shouting out he is going to kick your ass. Coming to you slowly, and giving away his intentions to everyone around saying “Hey, ya looked on me bitch ass?!”…well this is the scenario, where you don’t want to answer any of his questions or anyhow connect to what he is saying to you. Say something like “Hey dude, I gotta find a toilet, see ya later!” or “I’m going to vomit man!”and go away, leaving him there standing and feeling little bit like an idiot. He may still yell something on you but don’t pay much attention to that. These guys only shout, they rarely take action. If you hear sounds like someone is running towards you, run too.
4. Defensive talk scenario – When being attacked by a group. Well now it is also about your conversational skills since you have two options here. First option is that you aim your defensive talk on the leader of the group. Be convincing and confident about what you are saying. Attack his position as a leader and say things like “So you need a whole bunch of people to feel brave enough to attack me!” or “So now you feel like a hero with all these guys around you!” or “I bet you are just going to watch as your gorillas do all the action!”. If you can think of anything better that would question his leadership say it. Again – be convincing.
The second option is not aiming on the leader, but on the weakest part of the chain. This is kind of connected to your perception skill because you have to identify that weak spot, which is a person, who doesn’t seem to be sure about what they are doing. Once again set up your dominant voice tone and aim your defensive talk on him. “Do you realize what you are doing?” or “This isn’t right and you know it!”
…now, if you have identified the weak spot of the attacking group, you are just not going to talk to him and question his status in the party, but he also represents your escape door. Since he is psychically the weakest and may be also physically – what is the best option – you are going to plan your actions to run away trough him. They will definitely try to surround you in a place you will have a slight chance to run, so you must create the way your self. Break the chain in it’s weakest spot and run.
Shorten the distance between you two as you talk to him so he would be the nearest assailant of them all. Giving you time since they can reach you after they react on your action. Pretend timid and talkative person and as you are close enough – BAM! – one in the groin, neck or nose and RUN! Get lost among people or hide in a dark spot.
Remember to always play it safe and that there are ways to win without fighting. Even though they doesn’t always work, it is worth trying them.
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