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Kids Self Defense Tactics – Keep Your Kids Safe

July 20th, 2009 FighterStreet No comments

Selfdefense Tactics

Teach your kids self defense tactics developed exactly for them.

Kids Self Defense Tactics

I hate when people think of a kids self defense as of putting their child in some martial arts school and then they think that their eight year young kid is able to fight a grown adult vith violent intentions.

Let me tell you something. Martial arts classes are a beautiful way how to teach your child how to defend him/her self among peers against bullies for example, but as for kids self defense against adults – there are different and still effective ways how to keep them safe.

When talking about self defense for kids, I would suggest you would teach your kid these gambits.

Kids Self Defense tactics #1
RUN as soon as you see any kind of danger. Leave EVERYTHING BEHIND and run. Use the environment to your advantage. Disappear behind some obstacle, hide among the people, anything would help. Create DISTANCE between you and assailant!

Kids Self Defense tactics #2
SCREAM OUT LOUD! Let people around know that you are IN DANGER!

Kids Self Defense tactics #3
Run towards any source of HELP – group of adults, cop, any people around..

Kids Self Defense tactics #4
Throw anything you got to your assailant’s legs. School bag, books, overturn the dustbin …just do anything to gain some time and slow the guy down. Every second you win more is worth treasure.

Kids Self Defense tactics #5
When being caught, just make it as hard as possible for the one holding you. Twist, bite, scratch in the eyes, turn… just move and don’t stop. Make your self a hard target to get.
Nice tactics when being lifted is to mimic the running. Just run and turn. This makes it very hard to keep strong hold.

Kids Self Defense tactics #6
Fight for as much time as possible. You need time to raise your chances for the help to come, what means for the assailant to have a bigger chance to be caught. As I said before – SCREAM like hell and try to draw attention on what is happening to you.

Kids Self Defense tactics #7
Buy your kid a cell phone (mobile phone) and program your phone numbers under each keyboard button, so the dial would be easier and shorter. Teach your kids to call you whenever they feel they are in danger. Mobile phone is a modern weapon for general self defense and people forget to use it.

Teach your child NOT TO TRUST ANY STRANGERS. They should never ever believe any one they, and especially you as a parent, don’t know. Never ever go anywhere with them.

If they would listen to scum bags and go with them somewhere, there is a chance they will be dragged somewhere in a car or elsewhere.

Kids Self Defense tactics #8
Give your child a PERSONAL ALARM or a SAFETY WHISTLE. This is good for getting attention of other people. Personal alarms are very loud so it can be heard on a very long distance.

Kids Self Defense tactics #9
If your kid is put somewhere near the keys from the car’s ignition, tell them to grab them and TOSS OUT OF THE WINDOW.

Kids Self Defense tactics #10
When being kept on a back seat or in a room, don’t forget to USE THE CELL PHONE (mobile phone). Dial the number and put it in your pocket. Them try to DESCRIBE the WAY and the PLACE are going to. Use sentences like: “Baker street? (simply the name of the street) – Where are we going?!” or “Old hangar? (some description of the place).. What is this place?”

Kids Self Defense tactics #11
Buy your kid a spare cell phone (mobile phone). If your kid will be taken, he/she might be searched for this device. These days you can buy very tiny and cheap cells with only the function of phoning and texting. That is a beautiful thing …you can call it a concealed weapon.
If the common cell will be separated from your child, he/she may have another one with which you can be contacted lately.

Whenever your children are going to be somewhere alone or for example on some trip where you can not have any control upon them, you better teach them these basic kids self defense tactics for their safety.

Kids self defense is taken wrong by teaching them the same regular self defense tactics and martial arts like for adults. You better understand that kids are different and need to be taught more specific systems of self defense.

Be a good parent and be interested in what your children are doing. Become friends so you will get involved in their lives and especially in their protection!

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Bullies Should Not Be Tolerated – Protect Your Kid From Being Bullied

June 23rd, 2009 FighterStreet No comments

Bullying in Schools

Your child may be the victim of bullying and you might not even know that.

Bullies Should Not Be Tolerated – Ever!

Many children are asking them selves how to deal with bullies who make their life harder. Whether it is in school or among any other groups, bullies are everywhere and many of our children are being bullied – may be right in this moment.

Lots of people have some experience with bullies. Being a target of someone’s abuse or anger issues of paradoxically weaker ones who wants to boost their ego on those more vulnerable.

Bullied children and even adults can have big emotional a psychical problems so it is best to learn or teach the bullied ones how to deal with bullies.

1. Tell them that bullying is not tolerated and that by telling you they do nothing wrong. Your children should not be afraid to tell you that they are victims of bullies. If they don’t want to tell you, they should tell someone else they trust and who will tell you or help give them needed support. Tell them that it is not only their problem but it concerns all of the children and people around. Tell them if they are bullied, it is not a bad thing to say that and if they turn in the bullies they actually do good thing no matter what others think.

2. Sign them to a martial arts school so they will get some confidence and they will also loose the fear of being bullied physically. Sometimes when your bullied child starts to attend martial arts classes, the bullies give up on bullying him/her since martial artist have some kind of respect among children.

3. Teach your children not to react impulsively against bullies. The reaction is what bullies expect from bullied children. If your child would learn not to react for example no abuse from other children and to ignore it – soon the bullies will stop because, said literally, it is no fun. If attacked physically, teach them to fight back though. This is important because when the bully sees he can even beat your child, he will do it frequently. Fighting back bullies is the best way out of it.

4.  Teach your children to defend others if they see some other kids are being bullied. This way they will become some kind of protector and the bullies will see they have a competition. This can even stop bullies from their actions. What is also important, you must teach your kids that bullying is really bad thing and so if they have the power to fight bullies and to even protect others from being bullied – how not to become bullies themselves. Children don’t think of it that way, they just want to pay back for all they had to suffer. Teach them that hurting others is bad and that they only should defend and protect – never attack!

Be a good parent and build a bridge of trust and friendship with your kids. This way it would be easier even for them to tell you they have some problems in school or elsewhere. Being bullied is no fun and bullies are a big problem.

Remember though – they are just kids – don’t give them guns to deal with that if you know what I mean.

Have an experience with bullies? Don’t be afraid to share…

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Increase Your Children Defense Ability In Few Simple Steps

June 21st, 2009 FighterStreet No comments

Kids Self DefenceAre your kids safe? You may think they are but you are never sure enough when it comes to your kids!

Children Defense

Children defense is one of the hottest topics these days since they are an easy target for all those freaks out there. There are ways to protect children and here I will mention the basic things abou the children defense you should learn and apply with your child.

I would not recomment teaching your child how to knock out a person since children love to try things at the first place. If you think that your child is smart enough to ditinguish between bad and good so they won’t hurt anybody with some self defense moves, you can show them few. I doubt they will use it in a real fight anyway.

What actually works in children defense are these several points that can help you protect children of yours quite effectively.

1. children defense step – and the basic one of them all is – define to your child who the stranger is. Tell them that even the post man or your neighbor is a stranger and that they should not trust them. The best thing you can do is to give them speciffic persons to considerate familliar.

2. children defense step – talk with your child. Be a good parent and find some time to be with your little one. You can protect your children just by talking to them like about what they were doing whole day and who they met. Listen and notice any suspicious clues that could be connected with abuse or harrasment form the side of adults or even other children.

3. children defense step – buy your child a cell phone and teach them how to use it. Each cell has the function of programming speciffic number under each number button so program your numbers under them for quicker and better dialing. Tell to the little you that they must call you if anything happens. This way you will have information about your children.

4. children defense step – protect children by not letting them to be alone. Don’t ever leave them alone in a car or on a playground. That is the worst thing you can ever do. Not even at home. Teach them that they must always be with someone you trust.

5. children defense step – teach your children their names, your name, your address and at least one telephone number in case they would loose the cell.

6. children defense step – make your child understand their body is private. Teach them that they should not allow anyone to touch them on places where their bathing siut touches their body.

7. children defense step – protect children by teaching them what to do if anything happens. Tell them to scream and shout out sentences like “GO AWAY!” or “HELP ME!” – just anything that would bring attention to them. I would even recommend playing some role play scenes to let your children know what exactly you mean.

8. children defense step – call to their shool or any facility they are attending and set upo strict rules about who is going to pick up your children and what to do if anything goes wrong (like your children are late or anything).

Protect children at any costs because they are really easy targets and you can see in TV every day that some child is missing or found dead. Put your children defense on a higher level and don’t be selfish.

These are just some basics that you an build on. Spend more time with your children and listen to them, meet the people they meet and get their telephone numbers. Never ever leave your child out of control. It is your responsibility to keep them safe.

So that is it for your children defense. Go now and apply all these steps to make your little ones safer. You know how sad you would be if anything bad happened! Don’t wait!

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