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Your child may be the victim of bullying and you might not even know that.

Bullies Should Not Be Tolerated – Ever!

Many children are asking them selves how to deal with bullies who make their life harder. Whether it is in school or among any other groups, bullies are everywhere and many of our children are being bullied – may be right in this moment.

Lots of people have some experience with bullies. Being a target of someone’s abuse or anger issues of paradoxically weaker ones who wants to boost their ego on those more vulnerable.

Bullied children and even adults can have big emotional a psychical problems so it is best to learn or teach the bullied ones how to deal with bullies.

1. Tell them that bullying is not tolerated and that by telling you they do nothing wrong. Your children should not be afraid to tell you that they are victims of bullies. If they don’t want to tell you, they should tell someone else they trust and who will tell you or help give them needed support. Tell them that it is not only their problem but it concerns all of the children and people around. Tell them if they are bullied, it is not a bad thing to say that and if they turn in the bullies they actually do good thing no matter what others think.

2. Sign them to a martial arts school so they will get some confidence and they will also loose the fear of being bullied physically. Sometimes when your bullied child starts to attend martial arts classes, the bullies give up on bullying him/her since martial artist have some kind of respect among children.

3. Teach your children not to react impulsively against bullies. The reaction is what bullies expect from bullied children. If your child would learn not to react for example no abuse from other children and to ignore it – soon the bullies will stop because, said literally, it is no fun. If attacked physically, teach them to fight back though. This is important because when the bully sees he can even beat your child, he will do it frequently. Fighting back bullies is the best way out of it.

4.  Teach your children to defend others if they see some other kids are being bullied. This way they will become some kind of protector and the bullies will see they have a competition. This can even stop bullies from their actions. What is also important, you must teach your kids that bullying is really bad thing and so if they have the power to fight bullies and to even protect others from being bullied – how not to become bullies themselves. Children don’t think of it that way, they just want to pay back for all they had to suffer. Teach them that hurting others is bad and that they only should defend and protect – never attack!

Be a good parent and build a bridge of trust and friendship with your kids. This way it would be easier even for them to tell you they have some problems in school or elsewhere. Being bullied is no fun and bullies are a big problem.

Remember though – they are just kids – don’t give them guns to deal with that if you know what I mean.

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Children Defense

Children defense is one of the hottest topics these days since they are an easy target for all those freaks out there. There are ways to protect children and here I will mention the basic things abou the children defense you should learn and apply with your child.

I would not recomment teaching your child how to knock out a person since children love to try things at the first place. If you think that your child is smart enough to ditinguish between bad and good so they won’t hurt anybody with some self defense moves, you can show them few. I doubt they will use it in a real fight anyway.

What actually works in children defense are these several points that can help you protect children of yours quite effectively.

1. children defense step – and the basic one of them all is – define to your child who the stranger is. Tell them that even the post man or your neighbor is a stranger and that they should not trust them. The best thing you can do is to give them speciffic persons to considerate familliar.

2. children defense step – talk with your child. Be a good parent and find some time to be with your little one. You can protect your children just by talking to them like about what they were doing whole day and who they met. Listen and notice any suspicious clues that could be connected with abuse or harrasment form the side of adults or even other children.

3. children defense step – buy your child a cell phone and teach them how to use it. Each cell has the function of programming speciffic number under each number button so program your numbers under them for quicker and better dialing. Tell to the little you that they must call you if anything happens. This way you will have information about your children.

4. children defense step – protect children by not letting them to be alone. Don’t ever leave them alone in a car or on a playground. That is the worst thing you can ever do. Not even at home. Teach them that they must always be with someone you trust.

5. children defense step – teach your children their names, your name, your address and at least one telephone number in case they would loose the cell.

6. children defense step – make your child understand their body is private. Teach them that they should not allow anyone to touch them on places where their bathing siut touches their body.

7. children defense step – protect children by teaching them what to do if anything happens. Tell them to scream and shout out sentences like “GO AWAY!” or “HELP ME!” – just anything that would bring attention to them. I would even recommend playing some role play scenes to let your children know what exactly you mean.

8. children defense step – call to their shool or any facility they are attending and set upo strict rules about who is going to pick up your children and what to do if anything goes wrong (like your children are late or anything).

Protect children at any costs because they are really easy targets and you can see in TV every day that some child is missing or found dead. Put your children defense on a higher level and don’t be selfish.

These are just some basics that you an build on. Spend more time with your children and listen to them, meet the people they meet and get their telephone numbers. Never ever leave your child out of control. It is your responsibility to keep them safe.

So that is it for your children defense. Go now and apply all these steps to make your little ones safer. You know how sad you would be if anything bad happened! Don’t wait!

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Show Him The Dirtiest Combo Ever so He Won’t Forget it

Never ever stick with just one move when striking. The old Van Damme and Rocky school of asking for a blow and then playing the game of “You hit me – I hit you” is really not that effective as in the TeVo. This way you won’t scream “Adrian!” at the end, but may be “Medic!” would be better.

What actually you should do is that you have to put all your dirty moves in a combo and go berserk.
I don’t mean some fancy dancy ninja turtle combos, but effective combination of battlefield proven dirty moves.

Devastating dirty move number one, than immediately number two and other dirty moves following while creating a monstrously insane and even good looking domino effect dirty combo making you an unstoppable bulldozer fighter machine.

It is proven by many many fights already fought on a true battlefield against true enemy, that when you keep on striking, the enemy won’t have the time to counter or even recover and that means he has to loose…

The same goes for your berserk dirty move combos. Just keep on pressing on the assailant and don’t give him a chance to breathe in. He must feel you are there! Increase the efficiency of your combos by using dirty moves so the impact is devastating every time you touch some part of assailant’s body.

What is but very important to make your dirty move combinations much easier is that you have to strike first. If you fail to do so, you would have to deal with your assailant’s defense (he has his hands up blocking, he already started his combat move combination…).

You have to act fast and recognize the threat before you are actually attacked.
If he knows what you know, then the one who strikes first wins!

You gotta recognize the danger, take your stance, ear slap, eye gouge and kick in the nuts, ear tear, temple strike and run! Just let him feel like you have practiced this combo for the last hundred years.
If you feel doubtable, bite what ever comes near. Biting, slapping and scratching is your natural basic defense.

Practice these dirty moves, put them in combos and train different combinations. Don’t be afraid to fight dirty. It’s you or him and dirty moves are your best friends on the street.

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Ear Slap

This is a very nice technique, that is usually followed with other, also very effective moves, like eye gouge, ear tear or multiple kicks in the groin (just to give you some example).

The whole idea about the ear slap move is that you hit hard opponents ears with your hands, what has a massive effect on your assailant’s center of balance. Confusing him and gaining control over him for a while.

Performing ear slap is like hitting the ball in a volleyball smash. You shape your hand so it looks a little bit cupped and hit anywhere around the ear. The ear is the best target, but if you mess it up and hit a jaw or a neck, it has a good effect too, so don’t feel disappointed.

Try ear slap at home. I bet everyone has some kind of ball (football ball, soccer ball) and try ear slap on that. Shape your hand and hit it as hard as you can. The landing zone of your hand is your palm (basically the whole part above wrist – palm, fingers…).

I recommend practicing the ear slap move from the stance, where you put your hands in your pockets or put them on your hips. Now shoot your hands up and before you to the height of your own head. Don’t stop your hands on the place you would imagine your opponent’s head. Just clap your hands to have some feedback on your power. Do that many times in a row with speed and power.

You can replace assailant’s head for a plastic barrel or a plastic bottle. If you have a speed bag, heavy bag or “Bob”, you can nicely practice on these.

Remember to always combine the ear slap with other moves and create your own special combinations.

Ear slap can be also performed with just one hand, when the second grabs assailants hand or clothing and pull him in the direction of the ear slap while you then continue the momentum your ear slapping hand and pull your assailant’s head. This way you can easily ear slap your opponent to the ground.

It is very effective move that is nicely combined with eye gouge when attacking from behind. Ear slap with both hands and then rake the eyes with your middle fingers.

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Defensive Talk

How to talk when being attacked. Well many people will tell you – “Hey, you can try to talk your way out of it, but you better not even open your mouth!” But that is all and you can just guess for your self what to say. The defensive talk should be part of your plan and there are different ways of defensive talking that should help you save your butt.

The first think you should know, is that your voice is a weapon and according to that you should use it. Forget those mean sayings like “I’m gonna kick your ass!”, “Lets get ready to rock!” or “There can be only one Highlander!” and anything like that. It’s nice and fancy, but it is not tactics.

Defensive talk is all about tactics and strategy.

1. Defensive talk scenario – When you have identified the threat and whether you have already stopped the guy or still trying to create some distance between you two, your defensive talk must be strong in voice and you should be very convincing. It’s like giving orders to your dog. he must hear from your voice that you are his master. The same goes for your assailant. He must feel from your voice that it is you who moves the levers.
Imagine you are selling something that nobody wants to someone and you really need him to buy. You must convince him that he really needs it and he can no longer live without your product. Now when being attacked, you sell your life or money and you must persuade that bastard he has no other option than letting you go!
You can use sentences like “My friends will be here in a minute!”, “I just walked around two cops, I think I may call them!” or “Hey, I want no trouble, you better leave!” – remember that you must have really dominant voice tone.

I highly recommend to learn some covert hypnosis stuff to master the defensive talk skill. You can get quality guide here. It’s totaly insane and it will blow your fighter’s mind. Its super cheap so go and get it.

2. Defensive talk scenario – If you want to execute your offense from the close quarters – I mean really close (usual for rapes) preparing the assailant for close strikes like the throat blow or chin jab you should play timid with your hands raised so it would look like you really don’t want to fight. Saying “I’m going to tear your head off m*f*cker!” is not going to make you look timid at all. I would recommend saying things like “You don’t want to do this!” or “Please, I don’t want any trouble!”

3. Defensive talk scenario - The guy is approaching you, waving his hands walking like a jerk, shouting out he is going to kick your ass. Coming to you slowly, and giving away his intentions to everyone around saying “Hey, ya looked on me bitch ass?!”…well this is the scenario, where you don’t want to answer any of his questions or anyhow connect to what he is saying to you. Say something like “Hey dude, I gotta find a toilet, see ya later!” or “I’m going to vomit man!”and go away, leaving him there standing and feeling little bit like an idiot. He may still yell something on you but don’t pay much attention to that. These guys only shout, they rarely take action. If you hear sounds like someone is running towards you, run too.

4. Defensive talk scenario – When being attacked by a group. Well now it is also about your conversational skills since you have two options here. First option is that you aim your defensive talk on the leader of the group. Be convincing and confident about what you are saying. Attack his position as a leader and say things like “So you need a whole bunch of people to feel brave enough to attack me!” or “So now you feel like a hero with all these guys around you!” or “I bet you are just going to watch as your gorillas do all the action!”. If you can think of anything better that would question his leadership say it. Again – be convincing.

The second option is not aiming on the leader, but on the weakest part of the chain. This is kind of connected to your perception skill because you have to identify that weak spot, which is a person, who doesn’t seem to be sure about what they are doing. Once again set up your dominant voice tone and aim your defensive talk on him. “Do you realize what you are doing?” or “This isn’t right and you know it!”

…now, if you have identified the weak spot of the attacking group, you are just not going to talk to him and question his status in the party, but he also represents your escape door. Since he is psychically the weakest and may be also physically – what is the best option – you are going to plan your actions to run away trough him. They will definitely try to surround you in a place you will have a slight chance to run, so you must create the way your self. Break the chain in it’s weakest spot and run.

Shorten the distance between you two as you talk to him so he would be the nearest assailant of them all. Giving you time since they can reach you after they react on your action. Pretend timid and talkative person and as you are close enough – BAM! – one in the groin, neck or nose and RUN! Get lost among people or hide in a dark spot.

Remember to always play it safe and that there are ways to win without fighting. Even though they doesn’t always work, it is worth trying them.

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